Life is goes on even though the reason arnt good enough ?

Qoute people say is " stop trying be someone your not "
Well newsflash some people don't me to ? Its hard when they see how there friends are so perfect and they think they just some ugly person whos unwanted and they just try to be like there friend so they can fit in and feel loved for once or maybe they have problems at home and is just trying act as the  strong one not the attention seeker!
Most people dont know what goes on in there friends life cos 1 if they keep talking about it they get judge and called an attention seek 2 If they try to act like there friend to fit in they get called a try hard or get told stop trying be someone your not. 3 They wear not good brands maybe cos there famiy going through a tough time ? 4 people should think twice before they judge and call people things cos some people are going through hell and top of that they have people saying shit about them spreading shit on formspring !
People cant judge me and said im talking about myelf in this post cos im not im talking for everyone here and yes i may have gone through some shit like that but hasent anyone?
People make mistakes and regret it after they did it! People don't forgive and makes the other person upsett and then they soon start be depress cos they think their life is ruined forever.

Well all i know at momment is i do actually hate my life and i might not be perfect but im changing my ways :)